Comments on: What You Did vs. What You Are: Handling Racism with Dignity http://rosalindwiseman.com/2010/07/16/what-you-did-vs-what-you-are-handling-racism-with-dignity/ creating cultures of dignity Thu, 12 Jan 2012 23:04:57 +0000 hourly 1 By: James Durkan http://rosalindwiseman.com/2010/07/16/what-you-did-vs-what-you-are-handling-racism-with-dignity/comment-page-1/#comment-2174 James Durkan Tue, 20 Jul 2010 10:46:17 +0000 http://rosalindwiseman.com/?p=4791#comment-2174 Yup, that was lesson one (well, lesson two - lesson one was the difference between friends and therapists) when I was training as a Rogerian therapist : "Condemn the behavior, not the person". Yup, that was lesson one (well, lesson two – lesson one was the difference between friends and therapists) when I was training as a Rogerian therapist : “Condemn the behavior, not the person”.

]]> By: Amy Jussel, Shaping Youth http://rosalindwiseman.com/2010/07/16/what-you-did-vs-what-you-are-handling-racism-with-dignity/comment-page-1/#comment-2172 Amy Jussel, Shaping Youth Mon, 19 Jul 2010 08:49:27 +0000 http://rosalindwiseman.com/?p=4791#comment-2172 Smart, smart video: "I don't care what you are, I care about what you did." And "hold each person accountable for their actions" plays out nicely in parent/teen relationship convos that can devolve (or escalate!) with similar dynamics... Excellent use of the divided screen to articulate the two conversations as separate and preclude enmeshment that happens sooooooooooooo often when there's fuel/fire and volatility in verbiage on any topic. Thx for this post, Rosalind...(p.s. Still need to post the two-parter which has turned into a week long relational aggression series, which will run prior to school starting again...) Smart, smart video: “I don’t care what you are, I care about what you did.” And “hold each person accountable for their actions” plays out nicely in parent/teen relationship convos that can devolve (or escalate!) with similar dynamics…

Excellent use of the divided screen to articulate the two conversations as separate and preclude enmeshment that happens sooooooooooooo often when there’s fuel/fire and volatility in verbiage on any topic.

Thx for this post, Rosalind…(p.s. Still need to post the two-parter which has turned into a week long relational aggression series, which will run prior to school starting again…)

]]> By: Alanna Ulrich http://rosalindwiseman.com/2010/07/16/what-you-did-vs-what-you-are-handling-racism-with-dignity/comment-page-1/#comment-2168 Alanna Ulrich Fri, 16 Jul 2010 18:31:36 +0000 http://rosalindwiseman.com/?p=4791#comment-2168 I love this video!! Thanks for sharing!! I love this video!! Thanks for sharing!!

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